Anonymous931 For sure that’s not a good behavior ( the poor people things) . I’m not here for long enough, so I haven’t noticed all the little unpleasant moments and inappropriate behavior yet. Whatever happens, I tell myself that it is possible for all of us to chat here together, to defend our vision of things, while remaining open and kind. We obviously all have a tendency to want to defend what we like, our preferences, me first, and we can quickly get carried away, but it’s true that we have to do it in a reasonable way and above all remain open to other ways of seeing things. I’m not here to distribute good or bad points in any case. I just want us to be able to understand each other by developing reasoning when there is a misunderstanding, rather than getting angry and insulting each other. All this is even more complicated because we come from the four corners of the world, and the ways of communicating are very different. I remember being very surprised to discover that people from the USA with whom I exchanged never understood that some of my messages were ironic (in France we use irony a lot). For me it was totally obvious, but for them they took my messages literally every time and that caused incomprehension.😅
